THINK TWICE

My life is definitely not perfect. The path of difficult decisions has deeply affected my life and that of my children. Therefore, I am the last person to say anything about divorce and broken marriages. But just listen to my heart. When I look back today, it was never my dream and vision for my life or that of my children. Nothing can replace a father's love and influence in a safe marriage. So often after December holidays, the statistics show an increase in divorces, and lawyers are overwhelmed with appointments from couples who, after a holiday in each other's space, have decided it's over. Holidays together are exactly what shows how we've lived past each other in the year. We are exhausted and struggling to relax. Whatever your reason may be for your stress in 2025. Try to see the good and gold in each other. Look at the effect it has on your children and think again. How can we do this differently, better in this year. I pray for peace and happiness and new chances in 2025. For you, your life partner, and your children. 

May you find it in your heart to sit at God's feet and ask for wisdom. To ask to show you something of the future about how divorce will affect you and your children. If you are in an unsafe marriage, seek help NOW. Do not delay. I pray that you will make decisions outside your comfort zone. I am happily married to a man who lovingly holds me accountable daily for all the things I need to work on. I am grateful to God for forgiveness and grace. That is my wish and prayer for you.